nightmare birthday

someone's bday is a nightmare to me.
i spent so much time, so much effort to get a gift for her, make a card for her,
and all i get was disappointment, sad and other shit things..
wtf!!
i wanted to buy a sandals but all the people i asked said it was too simple.
and some asshole gave me an idea tat give a t-shirt with memorable words on it.. when i asked other ppl, all said ok ok ok ok ok OK THE SHITHOLE!!!
after i gave tat bloody t-shirt n people started to say it was too simple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!
i dont care what give she give me as a gift i'll still like it and appreciate it.. especially appreciate her effort to think n spend the time on the gift... even if she spends 10hours to make a shit for me i'll still like it..
im so sad bout my decision and im sad bout her appreciatness.. its ok if she doesnt wanna appreciate or whatever.. i don give a damn..
dont like it just throw it away... the shirt is wearable and she can show how much i love her.